Whew money... it's hard to talk about right?

I mean - it feels like either you don't have enough of it and you feel guilty or you've got too much of it and feel guilty.

Somehow, whichever end of the money spectrum we are on it makes us feel not good enough.

I'm not good enough at x, y and z, that's why I don't have more money.

OR - we move to...

I don't deserve all this money because I'm not good enough.

WTF? if we aren't good enough to have money and we aren't good enough not to have money... when are we good enough?

And that's the problem we face, especially as women who for generations have been taught to hide and play down who we really are.

We were told we inherently weren't as good as men.

So what do we do? How do we battle centuries of f*cked up brainwashing and mind drama.

Don't worry, I'm not going to talk down to you and give you a simple easy formula to fix everything in 5 minutes...because you deserve more than that.

I believe you are good enough and deserving of all the money, all the ease, all the luxury and all the amazing-ness

Most days I believe I deserve it too.

 

And that sentence right there my friend is a key.

It's so easy to believe someone else deserves it all.

That they are somehow better than us, smarter than us, more deserving than us because of... whatever random reasons your brain wants to make up.

We can believe in the worth of others so much more quickly than we can believe in our own worth.

Our own deservedness (yes, I make up words).

So what's a girl to do to get out of this mind f*ck and believe you deserve wealth and beauty and luxury and ease and grace and love?

I want you to talk to yourself just like you would talk to your best friend.

Turn your selfie camera on.

Look at yourself and tell your new best friend (ie. yourself) "Girl, I love you and you deserve it. You are enough."